Want to know the trick on how to pose for family photos? It’s the first thing that all my clients fall into when I begin a session—but I’m going to let you in on a not-so-big secret: I don’t do posing. I actually don’t really believe in it, because I lean more towards allowing families to simply be themselves.
How to Pose for Family Photos: Turn It Into a Playdate
When it comes to family photography, especially with kids, the biggest thing to remember is to be playful. Meet them where they’re at. What does that mean? Don’t force your kids to smile for the camera. Instead, be loving, engaged, and responsive to their needs. Once you engage, it will help you understand how to pose naturally in family photos.
If they need soothing? That’s the perfect moment for a snuggly photo. If they want to move their bodies, then we move with them. If something grabs their attention, we chase that curiosity together. These are the kinds of things that are the pose—real, in-the-moment connection. So when you’re wondering how to pose for family photos with your little ones, think less about structure and more about presence.
Find Your Inner Child
The way I approach family photos is geared toward the young at heart. It’s right there on the first page of my website, tucked into the top corner—a quiet reminder to all of us. Every session is a chance to slow down, drop into your child’s world, and see things through their eyes. This approach often shows clients how to pose for lovely family photos.
So if you’re still wondering what the secret is to natural poses for family photos, here’s the honest answer: you don’t. You just be. Be the parent who laughs, snuggles, runs, soothes, and shows excitement alongside their kids. What they see is magic—and I hope you see that same magic when I deliver your gallery.
Visit my online booking page to book a session that feels natural, easy, and organic. I’m now offering 20% off my sessions for Orange County families that want to book in spring – the offer is good until the end of June!
Family: Mera Eishell
